A lot of guys determine their worth based on how many women they’ve slept with. So naturally, guys who are less sexually experienced feel inferior. This shame prevents them from getting out there and gaining more experience.And as they get older, they only feel worse about themselves and become even more paralyzed.Relationships that start out with this dynamic never really recover, and as months and years pass, you may find yourself in a sexless "just friends"/ roommate arrangement.If you are crushing on a shy guy, I definitely recommend that you read The Rules, by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider.If you are inexperienced with women the best you can do is to change your gear and learn what work, it is obvious that many are OK with very little but real men go for the best, yes I go for the best, I am the kind that wants to hang out with the most beautiful girl in the neighborhood, I want to move around with the sweetest girl in town and if I have to do that successfully I need to learn what works with women, I need to know what turns them off and what turns them on Women respond to almost all men the same way.
I was a bit surprised by the question whether inexperienced men really do attract women. Then the answer would be yes, somehow with more luck they can attract women, but the issue is not whether they can attract women it is whether they can keep women and be the man.
There are pros and cons to dating a relationship newbie.
On the plus side, he’s probably super stoked about you, which will make you feel like a goddess (a welcome feeling in any relationship dynamic), on the con side, you may need to be a little extra assertive in some areas of the relationship, and not just the bedroom. If you’re dating a less than experienced guy because you’re scared of rejection, the relationship will get boring pretty fast.
it is obvious that some girl really would prefer a simple always mute handsome guy over a player.
Well, I have been there a couple of time and I know lots of guys have also been in this situation.