We are Answer is always “maybe”Whenever you invite him to do something far in advance, his answer is always “maybe.” He doesn’t say, “Because I may have a work thing” or give an excuse. If this only happens occasionally, you may not have to worry.But if it happens Sex is sporadic Men are humans too. Your guy might go in and out of feeling okay about sleeping with you.As their search for love heats up, suddenly there are a multiple men who are interested in them and they don't know how to handle it.The other scenario is that these women fall in love too quickly with one guy and end up heartbroken time after time. Well here's some dating advice for women in particular...I was fresh out of a relationship, breakup wounds still searing.But, rather than stay single, I figured out what the hell I wanted from my next long-term partner, dove straight into dating, and found myself in the middle of a rotation — that is, seeing a multitude of men, all noncommittally.
I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.
And, since I don't have a top-notch memory, it also requires keeping a handy list in my phone.
The logic behind multi-dating isn’t rooted so much in the need to distract oneself with a bunch of dudes following a breakup (although it totally can be) as it is in what men have long called "playing the field.” And, it's certainly not a new concept.
Rather, my goal was simple: to find a guy I could date more than three times, hoping this would lead to a relationship.
Frequently, men would drop out after one, two or three dates.